Frequently Asked questions

WHAT IS YOUR TRIBUTE?

My tribute is determined by the scene details, intricacy, and length. I enjoy a more bespoke approach to my BDSM guidance and play, which is why I require you to fill out my submission form. I will determine the tribute only after I have been able to
review your form. Communication is key to an amazing experience so please feel free to open up!

I AM A NEW CLIENT. HOW DOES THIS WORK?

For in-person appointments, I have very common and simple requirements for new clients.

Submission form: Filling out my form in full with attention to each section will give you the best chance of meeting me. After many years of communication with potential submissives, I have created a form to effectively help me familiarize myself with you and determine our compatibility. If you are unsure what your interests are, do your best in describing what you think you want to experience and why. Single word answers do not leave much to be desired. If there is a language barrier, please note that in your form.

References: I need two (2) current references from an active provider. You must have seen them in the last two years and you must provide their name, website and email.

If you are unable to provide references (such as a novice), I require a paid consultation call before I can determine if we are a good fit. You are welcome to ask me questions during our call.

Deposit: To ensure your earnestness, I ask for a deposit to hold your appointment.
I offer many discrete deposit options.

For vinual only appointments, please fill out my fonn. References not required.

I MADE AN APPOINTMENT. HOW SHOULD I PREPARE BEFORE SEEING YOU?

• Re-read my emails and make sure you have followed all instructions such as confirming your appointment at the required time.
• Practice good personal hygiene — freshly showered, teeth brushed, and no heavy cologne/perfumes please.
• Tidy clothing — sloppiness is not attractive.
• Activity specific preparation — If you have requested certain types of play that require you to be “extra” clean, please take the necessary steps to do just that.
• Tribute placed in an envelope — for extra brownie points, a handwritten note or card will put a smile on my face.

WHAT CAN I EXPECT FROM MY FIRST SESSION?

• What is the appropriate way to address you? “Queen Gaia” and/or “Goddess Gaia” to be used as well. For those who earn the privilege.
• Will my identity be safe? Yes! I do not take any photos or videos unless I have explicit consent.
• I am not sure what I like and don’t like, will we have a chance to talk? Yes, at the start of the appointment, we will have a few minutes to speak to ease any concerns.
• Will you leave marks? Not unless you want them. I respect all limits.
• Do you use a safeword? Yes and you are allowed to use it at any time.
• What are the risks? BDSM is inherently risky. However, we will
discuss the specific risks of your specific activities at the start of our scene.

WHAT ARE YOUR LIMITS/BOUNDARIES?

I do not offer the following activities: fecal play, intimate and nude body worship, roman showers, any illegal acts, and any play that causes long lasting damage.

WHAT ARE YOUR HOURS?

Monday-Friday
10:00am to 9:00pm
*Not including overnight appointments
At my discretion, I do offer appointments outside of my preferred hours. Additional tribute may apply.
For real time, I prefer at least 24 to 48 hours notice especially with first time clients.

DO YOU REQUIRE A DEPOSIT?

Yes, I do require a deposit from all clients to confirm an in-person appointment. It is a show of good faith that you will keep your appointment or provide adequate notice (at least 48 hours) of any cancellation or changes. When I travel, I require a larger deposit to cover the upfront cost of my trip.
I offer many discrete deposit options.

DO YOU REQUIRE REFERENCES?

Yes and No.

Two (2) current and active Providers. Please provide their name, website, and email. *Retired or non-current references may be accepted at my discretion. Please provide their name, website, social media, and email.

I do not call to confirm references. Please provide an email.

For novices: In place of references, I require a paid consultation call which will allow us to get better acquainted and will help me determine if we are a good fit. Once you fill out my submission form, I will provide clear instructions on how to schedule your consultation call.

WHAT IS YOUR CANCELLATION POLICY?

All deposits are nonrefundable. If you cancel at least 24 hours before your appointment starts deposits may be credited toawrds rescheduling a new appointment. Otherwise, you owe 50% of service price for late cancellations and 100% for no shows.

What are your payment methods?

Cashapp, Cash and Zelle (Upon Request).

IS VOUR TRIBUTE NEGOTIABLE?

No, my tribute is not negotiable.

I AM NOT INTO PAIN. DO YOU OFFER PAINLESS EXPERIENCES?

Yes, of course!
I enjoy a wide variety of activities, kinks, and fetishes. I offer a short list of interests as I have too many to list plus I am always evolving and discovering new activities I enjoy. Please feel free to inquire about specific activities via my submission form and look for my specialties list on Contact.

CAN I MAKE AN OUTFIT REQUEST FOR OUR SESSION?

I am open to reasonable outfit requests if done in advance. However, I prefer to wear what makes me feel powerful, sexy, and comfortable. I have a large fetish and non-fetish wardrobe that I enjoy wearing, but a polite and respectful request is expected. I reserve the right to decline if I feel the outfit does not fit our scene.

If you have an extremely specific outfit request feel free to inform me, but you may be required to provide the outfit.

I WANT TO GET VOU A GIFT. WHAT DO YOU LIKE?

Anything from my Amazon wishlist.

CAN I BE YOUR PERSONAL SLAVE?

Possibly.
Being a personal slave is not an easy task. It requires a lot of time, effort, and training. For many, the fantasy versus the reality of being a personal slave is not what they expected. It is neither a free session.

If you would like to earn the chance to become my personal slave, I require you to start off as a loyal submissive/client. Through regular real time sessions, I am able to assess our compatibility and determine your capabilities. It can be a long process
filled with many tests and challenges. I take slave training very seriously and would require you to do so as well.

DO YOU SELL YOUR PERSONAL ITEMS?

Yes I do! For those wanting to worship one of my worn items, I offer panties, stockings, socks, shoes, and more. Please send me an email with a respectful request. Provide the following:
• What would you like to purchase and how many?
• Do you have any specific requests?
• What is your shipping address?

DO YOU TRAVEL?

Yes. Though I am based in NYC, I tend to travel to Miami (a few times a year) and Washington, DC for play. If you would like to be notified when I am in those cities, please sign up for my mailing list.
If you would like to make a private travel request where I travel to you, please fill out my submission form. You will be required to cover my airfare, transfers, accommodation, and time spent together. A deposit will be required in order to
secure my travel. When filling out my form, please provide as much information as possible so we can arrange things most efficiently. I will need to know the following information:
• Where would you like me to travel to and potential dates
• How long would you like me to stay?
• How many hours per day would you like to spend with me?

CAN I TAKE YOU OUT TO LUNCH, DINNER, OR DRINKS?

Yes, I would love that! I find that a nice meal before or after our play time can enhance the overall experience. To schedule a
meal or drink with our play, please make sure to clearly request the option on my submission form. Tribute varies depending on our overall time together.

​My Specialties

Breath Play, Mummification, Edging, Domination, Humiliation-Public and Private, Corporal Punishment, Financial Domination, Sensual Domination, Denial, Feminization, Fantasy Role-Play, Most Fetishes (Smoking, Foot, Tickle, etc.), Puppy Training, Spitting, Objectification, Foot and Body Worship, Face Slapping, Trampling, Ballbusting.

Hard Limits

Golden showers, brown showers, blow jobs, sex, or where I am nude or topless.